… Again i was out for a long period from my blog my readers.. My mind was disturbed and was not able to concentrate in anything.. Right now I am back with a small episode in my life which touched me a lot.. Hope that my readers will respond to it. ..
The mind is always asking questions to our self, whether to do something or not to. It is the one common thing which all humans possess ie, our craving for such answers. Answers which lies deep inside our hearts which even we ourselves can’t see or offer to make solutions to our problems. I always wondered how I saw or to say realised the idea of love.!! It is something which comes along with compassion, commitment, sentiment and an innate feel which describes ourselves. (My readers may have different opinions π , but while I am writing this I am going through a difficult phase of bitter reality which is making me think twice and is forcing me to ask questions to myself just like I said in the beginning.. For a man like me , love is one of the key elements of survival, just like air and water it is the powering source of our humaneness.
Last day I saw a man crying right in front of me (he was a bit drunk actually) but I realised his tears were true. He was an old fortune teller sort of guy who wanders from place to place visiting temples. I was sitting near a festive carnival which was going on in my place, he just came to me in a sudden and asked me whether he could get 20 rupees to have tea. As a common man I along with my friend who was sitting beside me gave him the sum he asked for and then he just held onto my friend’s hands and started saying his fortune.
At one point the person said about the love of my friend to his father and that was the moment when his eyes filled with tears, he said to us that he too had a son whom he loved so much. He tried so hard and worked so hard throughout his age and gave good education for his son , he helped him to get a secure job and he went abroad. He was working in a company in the middle east as a supervisor of some sort . I didn’t realize why he was crying while saying that but when he said what happened in his life , even my eyes got wet too. This so called some of his after getting a job and after marrying a girl which he loved started to avoid his father ie, the old man. He used to call his wife from abroad but he never called or contacted the man who spent all his life and effort for his son’s well being. He never asked , are u well papa or anything like that. Holding my friend’s hands the mans tears touched his feet and I didn’t knew what I would say to him. I didn’t knew what answer I could give him so that he may feel a bit better.
The ugly truth of life , that a man whether he is a father or a brother or a benefactor in any ways , as people change or I can say as the status changes our mindset also changes. Life is nothing but a selfish episode for people like that. When that man asked me that , my son (yes, he called me son) why is he not calling me and just asking me that appa, are u OK ?? Are you doing good at home ??. I too didn’t had answers. He made me think about me n my family. That man helped me to see the bitterness that every father is willing to face in their life. He made me realize what we can give to our parents as their loving children..
June 11, 2016 at 3:04 pm
We all need a hand on the shoulder once in a while, and a warm heart. Whether that comes from a friend or a stranger is of secondary importance. Without love and compassionate understanding this can be a barren world. Just one flower of a happy moment can often enlighten it. Thank you.
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June 11, 2016 at 3:05 pm
Absolutely sir. I agree with you.. πππ
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June 14, 2016 at 9:10 pm
Hey I’ve nominated you for the 3 day quote challenge. Do check out my latest blog on it.
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June 14, 2016 at 10:03 pm
Sure my friend.I would love to…. I’m suffering from acute viral fever and that is why I am not able to post anything new for the past few days… I will certainly do this tomorrow or the day after tomorrow… Thank you for nominating me my friend…
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June 14, 2016 at 10:12 pm
I will be waiting for the blogs π
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June 14, 2016 at 10:41 pm
Hey. How have you been? π
I really love this post. It is so emotional. There are several situations in life that leave us introspecting. You start questioning everything you’ve done and everything you have. But there is always one thing that we can do and that is learn from such experiences. It is okay to cry sometimes you know, makes you feel alive. Always stay strong.
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June 15, 2016 at 7:40 pm
Thank you dr.. I was suffering from viral fever for the last many days nd u know these ugly sickness makes us feels like shit.. Yuckkk… H he he.. . thank you for checking on me again my friend.. And ryt now I am working on the liebster award which u nominated me for. Hoping that I will be able to post it in a day or two.. Eee…
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June 15, 2016 at 8:05 pm
I am happy you are back. I hope you are well now. Take good care of yourself.
I’ll be waiting for the post. ππππ
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June 15, 2016 at 8:07 pm
Eee.. I am getting well.. Missing my coffees.. He he. Mom’s not giving me coffee since the fever started. H ebe he..
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June 15, 2016 at 8:10 pm
Coffees can wait. XD
Get completely well.
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June 15, 2016 at 8:11 pm
Ha ha ha…. My coffee misses me too.. If am ryt. He he.
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June 15, 2016 at 8:14 pm
Haha. You bet. I pretty sure they do. It’ll be worth the wait. Make sure you have a big cup of coffee when you are completely well. I missed your presence around and I am quite sure your coffee missed you too. ππππ
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June 15, 2016 at 8:18 pm
Ha ha ha….I don’t think I will take a big cup , instead I will take a big bucket of coffee. He he he. Happy to hear that I was also being missed by someone. Eee… And Eva will you Suggest me one of your favourite writer’s best work which u have read…
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June 15, 2016 at 8:20 pm
Umm… there are many! Tell me any genre you like?
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June 15, 2016 at 8:22 pm
Ummmm.. Fiction.. Any fiction writing which u loved..ππ
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June 15, 2016 at 8:29 pm
You can read The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho or The Da Vinci Code my Dan Brown. I loved them both. They are the two of my favourites.
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June 15, 2016 at 8:34 pm
Aaha… Two best works by two best writers.. I have read it .. Eeeee… Any other…
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June 15, 2016 at 9:21 pm
Woohoo. Tell me your dreams by Sidney Sheldon? Or umm.. You’ve been warned by James Patterson and Digital Fortress by Dan Brown
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June 15, 2016 at 9:26 pm
Yup I will surely try James Patterson. Tell me your dreams is also one of my favourite books… Eee. Barcode Sidney Sheldon fan. He he he…
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June 15, 2016 at 9:33 pm
Wohoooo. It is good to know we have similar taste in books. πππ
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June 15, 2016 at 9:35 pm
Yup .. Sure dr. Have u read Sheldon’s bloodline .. If not try it .. It is wonderful..πππ
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June 15, 2016 at 9:50 pm
Sure. πππ
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